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Question: How exactly do i tell this girl off?

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Answer #1:

Why not pick her up and drop he off in the middle of nowhere? She might be kidnapped. I'd know you want that.

Answer #2:

Okay. Shes a b!tch. Simple as that.. FORGET HER!!

shes not worth it.

Answer #3:

LOL I take it you're looking for a bit of a bang, right?

I read a book a while ago. This guy caught his girlfriend cheating (she didn't know he caught her out). He called her up the next day and, very calmly and politely, said something like this:

"I'm not angry with you. I even forgive you. But you will never hear from me or see me again".

Then he put the phone down. I just found it so powerful. I'll always remember that bit of the book. I think it was the lack of anger. Anger is much easier to deal with than silent, polite contempt. If she's used to you being angry, this new calm and contempt attitude might come as a surprise and she may actually listen to you.

If I ever need to tell someone the damn truth, that is how I will do it. Very calmly and politely... and then live up to my word and never, ever contact them or allow them to contact me again.

ADD: Though not picking her up from the airport would probably convey the message too... and it's less likely to go wrong. You just don't turn up. Simple.

Answer #4:

tell her your done and she can do watever she want because you dont give an **** so she can go **** off

Answer #5:

So I'm assuming your a girl, but correct me if Im wrong... One of the biggest slaps in the face for a lesbian is to be left for a guy. I'm not really sure why it is but its definitely worse then being left for a woman - so thats number 1 for your ex to understand. Secondly, just tell her that whatever type of relationship you two have going on right now is not where you want to be. Tell her you thought it was deceitful and wrong that she went and met this guy right after she was talking to you. Tell her your looking for something real and not someone who can't make up their mine. When you part let her know that you think it would be best if you not longer had contact with each other. You dont owe her a explanation so dont let her manipulate you. The best thing you can do is be nice and end it on a good note, if you blow up at her and say nasty things you will always regret it.

Answer #6:

Go go go boy! Well done and good luck luv me!

Answer #7:

Remember when I told you not to go back to her under and circumstances and that she was a manipulative little girl? lol

How about this - DON'T PICK HER UP FROM THE AIRPORT!
Tell that little biznatch to walk home. You don't owe her anything and you certainly don't need to waste any breath on saying anything to her. Let her think you are picking her up and don't - actions speak much louder than words!

She is playing you LARGE. Don't let her do it anymore.

She says these stupid things to you because she just wants a reaction. She has low self-esteem and she does these things because it serves as a ego boost to her to have someone tell her she's worth something and that they will follow her to the end of the earth so she feels wanted.
Don't pick her up and if she does call you, use the line that Hooch provided.

Answer #8:

Why are you picking her up from the airport when you are done with her?? If you really want to move on then let her find another way home..You know when you see her no matter what your gonna ask for another chance.No matter what type of a relationship your in when you know it's over and not going to work then move on and be strong.it takes time for the hurt to heal but it happens and you can find true happiness when your able to let go..

Answer #9:

I'm not sure why you're continuing to engage with her, or waste any emotional energy on her at all.

Consider yourself well off without her, and don't give her any more mental room. Honestly, she's not worth the time or the effort.

And let her find someone else to pick her up at the airport. Why should you do it?

Answer #10:

You don't NEED to tell her a gawd damned thing. You don't need to talk to her ever again. You don't need her on your email, in your Facebook, on your phone or sniffing up your butt.

You do NOT pick her up from the airport, you ignore her you do not give her any satisfaction by reacting to ANYTHING.

In otherwords you let the b*tch flounder around, pity herself, hate you and lay in her own waste she has created and you imagine her going into head first with her mouth wide open.

Answer #11:

If it were ME, I would tell her via Facebook that I'm not available to pick her up at the airport because I met someone online and going to go meet up with them at that time. Wish her well and delete her from your Facebook.

That's a good back-handed slap in the face! Sounds like she's got it all figured out, let her figure this one out too.

Also, you can block her number and email address from being received. Stop allowing her to contact you. It's only going to get worse and you need to move forward and take charge!!

Answer #12:

Man did I get confused. I responded at the other post so will not respond again here. I just realized you said you posted in two places. I thought I was honestly losing my mind.
I do love all of these responses though.
IMHO
Most honest:
1. Hoochie can haz a hot dog: Most earnest
2. Aphrodite: Most Honest and to the Point (as ever)
3. Nikko: Most concerned and still honest
4. Misty: Most sincere
5. Launi... and I saved this one for last because:
Most straight-forward, honest and to the point and the answer with the most balls! And I have no doubt she would do exactly what she said...and if she had the gumption to show up at the house ... Launi, the beautiful APBT would be instructed to bite her in the AZZ and give her a push into that waste heap.

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