Question: Will I ever meet love?
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Answer #1:
Well if your looking for love you won't find it...but if you stop looking it'll come to you. Just give it time...love will come sooner or later you should have hope that one of these days you will find that special someone..Answer #2:
I've been told by alot of people in my life to just sit back and watch, and wait, and not force the issue. Granted I'm 20 and have had 3 over 1 year relationships, but I found that each one came when I least expected it. (One from a party romance, one from a random facebook application [didn't know her before that app] and another at a coffee shop while i was dating the facebook girl)I have recently tried to find a gf, and now I have been single for 8 months (not long by any means but long for a guy who has had a total of 2 single months between 3 years of dating it feels long). Seems the harder I (or you) try, the less we get.
Perhaps the best thing is to listen to the stereotypical and generic comment of "don't force it" and just sit back, keep living life, and bump into your future love. Billions of people are married, I have to believe based off those numbers that hundreds of millions have found their loves from not trying at all.
Answer #3:
Ok man, start with the obvious stuff. Write down what you think your strengths and your weaknesses are.Then be sure to burn that crap so no one reads it except you. Now, to be sure ; the 'experts' say that 30 is the very best age for a man to begin to consider marriage. So, YOU are the smart guy. I married at 20 so look what it got me? Too young. So , count your single blessings. Period.
Now, what you need is to be around alot alot alot of singles. Take up being active in your hobbies and interests. You have common ground right away. Second, repeat after me..... " it's just ( coffee ) "....
Sound corny but it works. Replace coffee with whatever, rugby, volleyball, open mic poetry, smashmouth football, just go at this dating thing with this in mind. Connections will happen and why should it cost me dinner and movie to find out I can OR CANNOT stand this person....! Say it again' It's just coffee !
Relax, this is gonna take time. I'm not the one to tell you how long to date before engagement, or how long an engagement should be....! Those details will work themselves out !
and p.s. Only YOU can answer your final question...:" what am I doing wrong?".
A little insight you gave is that you've had one "relationship". So, practice being friends first, relations later and you will find that you have alot of ladies intersted in you. The key here is to keep the physical stuff at bay UNTIL you get to know her. Until then, professional girls may be the answer for you.
be well, be safe, , , monk
Answer #4:
Looking for a serious relationship is what your doing wrong.Instead of looking for someone to go on vacation with, take a trip by yourself to thailand or the philippines. Heck a week in Dubai and you will feel like a new, energized man... Trust me.
Find the GFE without the actual girlfriend and you will be 1000 times better off.
If you do insist on a serious relationship, try overseas women. Take a trip to a few 3rd world countries and find you a bride or whatever. People always say there are just looking for a green card, but that is absolutely far from the truth. Filipinas, Ethiopians,and Eastern Europeans are very very loyal as long as you take care of them. And some have degrees, so it is possible for them to find jobs in the U.S depending on where you live. Definately try dating a non-American if things aren't going your way.
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